This song sprung from the newfound bachelorhood of three men very close to me. They had all been in The One relationships and found themselves suddenly single, and all for the very same reason… hmmm. Each was kind, interesting, talented, attractive and a reliable man of integrity. It would be a matter of time before a “new woman”, or several, would appear on the scene. What was becoming obvious in this relationship transition was that each one of these men were looking for what they had lost, and not what they might find.

In the years that have passed, there have been many other transitions in my circle. I am sorry to say it is the men that have had a harder time letting go of past relationships than the women. It’s really hard…